Monday, July 4, 2016

Running Away from God

My wife, Kym, and I have four children ranging from 14yrs old to 3yrs old. I dearly love them. There are times when they have attitudes and behaviors that I like and some that I don’t like. For example, I love it when my toddler daughter, Elle, runs to me when she sees me from a distance. I feel very loved in that moment. Also, I love it when she and I are doing the same thing together, like holding hands, walking together, or doing a task together. There are other moments I don’t like so much; like when she runs away from me when I tell her to come here or when she flat out resists me with a stubborn attitude going against my stated directions and commands.

It’s interesting how there are similarities between a child’s relationship with their parent and a person’s relationship with God. All four of the behavioral examples I just mentioned about my daughter toward me occur with people toward God. People run away from God. Some people run to God. Some people run with God. And people run against God. All four of these behavioral themes toward God are found in the book of Jonah in God’s Word, respectively in each of the four chapters.

Many people think that the big news in the book of Jonah is about a whale of a tale, but this book is not so much about a big fish moment. This book is primarily about God; His grace, His mercy, His provision, His sovereignty, His message of repentance; and it’s about a prophet named Jonah who found himself in and out of the will of God which is something that we can relate to today. We are either heading toward God, His will, His ways of righteousness or heading away from God in sin. Which path describes your life lately?

From Jonah chapter one, let’s walk through six stages of Jonah trying to run away from God’s will.

Stage 1) God called Jonah to proclaim repentance to sinners in Nineveh; vss1-2

Jonah 1:1-2 ESV Now the word of the LORD came to Jonah the son of Amittai, saying, 2 “Arise, go to Nineveh, that great city, and call out against it, for their evil has come up before me.”

Jonah was a prophet who received revelation from God and communicated that to other people, usually to Israelites. Here, however, God called, commissioned, commanded His servant Jonah to go to a pagan mission field; specifically to Nineveh, a big city that was involved in much evil. The context here is that God called Jonah to go to these Gentile pagans and rebuke them for their wickedness, preach to them of their need to repent, to turn to God for salvation and live godly lives and if they didn’t, God’s holy just judgment would come upon them.

This would be a very difficult and dangerous mission for Jonah because this was the capital of the Assyrian Empire, which was quickly becoming the most powerful nation in the world. They were steeped in pagan idolatry and were destroying people groups in the region and had a reputation for being very cruel and wicked in how they treated their enemies.

They were a huge threat to the nation of Israel and this was where God was calling Jonah to preach repentance? Wow! Consider a modern day parallel. God calls a Christian preacher from a biblically saturated culture to go to a crowded city in North Korea or Iran to preach repentance in the name of the Son of God, Jesus Christ, the only Savior and Lord. That would be a very dangerous mission.

Stage 2) Jonah disobeyed God and fled on a ship in the other direction; vs3

3 But Jonah rose to flee to Tarshish from the presence of the LORD. He went down to Joppa and found a ship going to Tarshish. So he paid the fare and went down into it, to go with them to Tarshish, away from the presence of the LORD.

I could just imagine Jonah responding to God saying stuff like: “Surely you don’t mean that? The Assyrians? Our worst enemy? Those awful pagans! Wait a minute! You never called other prophets to go preach repentance to our enemy nation. I quit. I’m out of here. Find someone else to do this crazy task.”

Jonah tried to run away from God’s will by fleeing on a ship toward the far west, maybe toward Spain, but there is no escaping the omnipresence of God. Jonah was fleeing the Holy Land where the special divine presence of God was manifested like in the Holy Temple. Jonah was in essence trying to resign from his position of God’s prophet and run away from this divine calling and responsibility. How many times has God called us to be someone and do something and our response was to run in the opposite direction of God’s will?

Why did Jonah disobey? He probably had some Hebrew pride, some national pride. Christians in the United States, do we struggle with a national pride or a Christian pride gloating that we are better than others? Jonah probably lacked faith in God about this dangerous mission. How often has God called us to something and we thought, I can’t, I’m unqualified, that’s too hard, too dangerous, etc…?

Jonah was a faithful prophet as long as God wanted what Jonah wanted. But when God’s marching orders went contrary to Jonah’s comfort zone and desires, the prophet would not do what God told Jonah to do. What about you and me? What is the call to Nineveh in our lives we are saying “no” to God about? When God calls you and me to go communicate His kingdom message to some person, some group, some type of human need, what is our response to God? Is it run to and with God or run away from and against God?

Stage 3) God caused a terrible storm to endanger the ship and its passengers (read vss4-6)

Surprisingly, Jonah is out cold asleep but the captain woke him up and told him to cry out to his god for deliverance from this dangerous storm. It’s a sad thing when a prophet servant of the Lord has to be told by pagans to cry to the Lord for help. Jonah brought trouble to a boat load of sailors because he disobeyed God. Whenever we get out of the will of God there are implications for us and others, some of which we might not learn about until later.

Stage 4) Jonah confessed to the crew he is the reason for the storm & he offered his life for their safety (read vss7-13)

9 And he said to them, “I am a Hebrew, and I fear the LORD, the God of heaven, who made the sea and the dry land.”
12 He said to them, “Pick me up and hurl me into the sea; then the sea will quiet down for you, for I know it is because of me that this great tempest has come upon you.”

No one’s gods were answering the prayers so the crew decided to cast lots as a way to point guilt to someone who was the cause of this storm. I believe God orchestrated the outcome of the lots for His sovereign purposes. Jonah then confessed a few things and the sailors were even more afraid probably thinking Jonah’s God is angry at all of them. Jonah figured that the only safe solution for those onboard was to get him off the ship. Jonah then advised them to throw him overboard. Some scholars notice a type of Christ in this moment when Jonah offered his life for the deliverance of others.

Stage 5) Jonah is thrown into the sea by the crew (read vs14)

The sailors cried out to the God of the universe, Jonah’s God, because they believed Jonah was the reason for this storm and God was upset at Jonah, and they didn’t want to be held accountable for what they were about to do to Jonah.

vss15-16 So they picked up Jonah and hurled him into the sea, and the sea ceased from its raging. 16 Then the men feared the LORD exceedingly, and they offered a sacrifice to the LORD and made vows.

So, the crew did what Jonah told them they should do and they did what they thought might save the lives of all those onboard the ship, even though this meant Jonah would likely die in the sea. They threw him overboard. Notice, then right afterwards, the sea became peaceful. This was another wow moment act of God who is sovereignly in control of the skies and the earth and its seas. Upon the calming of the sea, the sailors gave reverential fear to Jonah’s God and sacrificed something to the Lord and made commitments of some sort.

Stage 6) God provided a great fish to swallow Jonah for 3 days & 3 nights; vs17

17 And the LORD appointed a great fish to swallow up Jonah. And Jonah was in the belly of the fish three days and three nights.

The key point here is not what kind of fish it was or how big it was but that God arranged for this big fish to swallow Jonah and preserve him in there 3 days, 3 nights. We read later that Jonah survived this incredible ordeal, but many people have trouble believing it. Did you know that there have actually been numerous cases reported in more recent times of men who have survived being swallowed by a whale? But that’s beside the point here. We do not need a naturally proven explanation about Jonah surviving in a huge fish. What we need is increased belief and faith in the Lord God Almighty and what He has revealed in Scripture. Amen! You either believe God’s word that God created the Heavens and the earth or you don’t. You either believe God parted the Red Sea and delivered His people from Egypt or you don’t. You either believe that the eternal Son of God became flesh by a virgin birth, became the God-man, died, and then rose in a resurrected body or you don’t. You either believe God used a great fish to swallow up Jonah and preserve his life or you don’t. May the Lord help us have greater belief in God and His Word and may we live accordingly, all to His glory.

From God’s perspective, these circumstances on/in the water and in the big fish for Jonah were an orchestrated series of events drawing Jonah back to God and His will, to an important mission with God to reach a pagan people with God’s message.

Perhaps we know God has called us to a certain place and/or to do a certain work. And we’ve got all the reasons in the world why we think we don’t need or want to obey Him. But running away from God’s will and His Word for us is sin and there will be consequences. May the Lord help us to not disobey Him and instead be faithful obedient believers, knowing God better and better and proclaiming Him better and better to the world. I know from personal experience that running to and with God is not only way better than running away from and against God, it is the best God-honoring God blessed path to be on.

Jonah was on a downward journey in many ways but thankfully the story didn’t end there. God extended Him amazing mercy and grace and provision; and for us today, this is found in Jesus Christ. One of the great evidences of the authenticity of this Jonah story is that Jesus referred to Jonah more than once, using the three days in the belly of a great fish for His own resurrection timeframe. This is exciting! The resurrection of Christ was a key moment in God’s plan of redemption for us; to bring us to God, to be in a right relationship with Him now and forever, by grace through faith in Christ. There is nothing more eternally significant than knowing Jesus personally as your Savior and living for Him as the Lord of your life.

And remember, let’s be consistently running to God and with God! For example, let’s spend quality time in His Word, in prayer, and with His people seeking to understand God’s will and stay in His will consistently engaging in His good works which includes being salt and light in Christ and being the hands, feet, and voice of Christ in this world; being who He wants us to be and doing what He wants us to do; all for His glory! Amen!

I encourage you to prayerfully study the book of Jonah and read ahead. In chapter two you’ll notice Jonah running to God, praising Him, thanking Him. In Chapter three, Jonah’s running with God and a great revival among a large pagan group of people broke out. In chapter four, Jonah is running against God, showing his negative attitude toward God’s mercy toward Ninevah.

May the Lord God Almighty help us consistently run to God and with God and may we point others to the same, all to His glory!

What are your thoughts on Jonah chapter one, this blog, and the issue of running away from God’s will?   


Mike

Sunday, May 15, 2016

Accountability Discussion Points/Questions for Christian Men



1) Spiritual Integrity:
Describe how are you doing in your relationship with God?
Describe your inner life with God (i.e. spiritual disciplines like time with God through prayer and time with God through His Word)? What do you do? When? Where?
What has God shown you recently from your time alone with Him?
Describe your recent spiritual life in community with one or more people where the Word is communicated and there is prayer time?
What are the greatest hindrances to your inner life relationship with God lately?
What are the most serious temptations you are facing lately? In what areas of your life are you most vulnerable to temptation?
What kind of God-honoring good works and ministry are you doing for God’s glory lately?
How have you blessed others?
Whom have you communicating Christ to?
How have you been using your spiritual gift(s) and resources to help and serve others in need?


2) Family Integrity (if applicable):
How are you doing in your relationship with your wife and your children (quality time with them; caring, loving, serving, providing for them, spiritual interaction, conflict/resolution)?
What are the greatest hindrances to your God-honoring relationship with your immediate family members?


3) Vocational Integrity (if applicable):
Are you being God-honoring and responsible according to your job description, expectations from your leader(s)? How are you contributing value to the organization to the glory of God?


4) Sexual Integrity:
How are you doing lately with your thoughts and desires related to impurities and lust?
How are you doing at avoiding external sources of lust-oriented content like various forms of pornography; or other videos, pictures, writings, lyrics and such that can trigger lust in your life?
How have you failed with lustful thinking, desires, and behaviors recently?
Have you been engaging in any sexually questionable/immoral associations/communications with others? (if married, no flirting or sexual activity outside of marriage; if not married, no sexual activity with another person)


5) Relational Integrity:
How is your relationship with others, people outside your immediate family (like extended family, co-workers, classmates, teammates, neighbors, church folks…)? no lying, slandering, gossiping, tearing down others; instead be loving toward others, show them grace and truth; be supportive of leaders in your life


6) Financial Integrity:
Are you making timely payment of bills? What are you doing to get out of and/or avoid any unhealthy debt?  How are you being a steward of God-given resources in your life? How are you exceling in being a cheerful giver, tithing, offerings, generosity,…? Are you struggling with materialism? envy? greed? Lack of contentment related to stuff and things in your life?


7) Demonstrate the Fruit of the Spirit;
Gal. 5:22-25 ESV 22But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. 24And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. 25If we live by the Spirit, let us also walk by the Spirit.
How are you doing recently with demonstrating and expressing the nine elements of the Fruit of the Spirit?  Which ones are you not doing well at recently?


8) Your Hallmark Purpose (Mission) Statement:

Mike’s:
I am pressing on as a maturing Christ-follower, a winsome Christ-like instrument of righteousness and encouragement to others, engaging in good works, all for the glory of God. The two key verses are Philippians 3:14 (I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. ESV) and Romans 6:13 (Do not let any part of your body become an instrument of evil to serve sin. Instead, give yourselves completely to God, for you were dead, but now you have new life. So use your whole body as an instrument to do what is right for the glory of God. NLT).

How are you doing at being this person? Living this out regularly?


9) Your Resolutions

Examples from Mike:
Today and here on forward, by the grace of God
- I belong to Jesus Christ; He is Creator, Savior and Lord of my life; He has redeemed me.
- I will trust Him and live for/with Him according to God’s Word for His people today.
- I will develop my inner life in Christ by spending regular quality time praying to God.
- I will develop my inner life in Christ by spending regular quality time in God’s Word; learning it, living it, praying it, and proclaiming it.
- I will seek to be Christ-centered, Spirit-filled, and God-glorifying in all I am and do.
- I will build up believers in Christ and build (relational & spiritual) bridges to nonbelievers.
- I will be a Great Commandment Christian (seeking to love God with my all and to love my neighbor as myself).
- I will be a Great Commission Christian (making disciples, baptizing them, and teaching them what Christ has commanded).
- I will love God through worship, and love people through fellowship, discipleship, ministry and witnessing.
- I will be a generous steward of God’s resources.
- I will pour out the Fruit of the Spirit in my life: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, gentleness, goodness, faithfulness, & self-control.
- I will love my wife (Kym) and our kids (Luke, Josh, Zachary, and Elle) as the five most important people and primary disciple-making mission field in my life.
- I will be faithful to God, my wife, our kids and to the work God has called me to.
- I will lead those people whom God has called me to lead.
- I will pursue excellence and quality at what God has called me to be and do.
- I will engage in the good works God calls me to engage in.
- I will care for myself in a God-honoring way.
- I will be this person and do these things to the glory of God by God’s grace and my proper response to Him in faith and obedience.

10) Your Top Values

Mike’s example

Belief, Faith, Family, Grace, Truth, Learning, Improvement, Communication, Influence, Discernment, Purpose, Significance, Wisdom, Integrity, Humor, Effectiveness, Efficiency, Priorities, Thankfulness, Fellowship

Describe how you are doing at holding these values up as important in your life?


11) Your Church’s Vision & Mission Statements (if applicable): Thomas Road Baptist Church (Lynchburg, VA) exists to bring glory to God by making a positive difference in the lives of people! To change our world by developing Christ followers who love God and love people!
Six core values:
1. Commitment to Scripture 2. Culture of prayer 3. Lifestyle of worship 4. Connection to community
5. Heart for serving 6. Passion for sharing

How are you doing at contributing to and engaging in this vision/mission statement and carrying out these core values?


12) The Spiritual Leadership Standard in God’s Word for Deacons is a good spiritual standard for any Christian man who seeks to grow/mature in Christ:

1 Tim. 3:8-13 ESV Deacons likewise must be dignified, not double-tongued, not addicted to much wine, not greedy for dishonest gain. 9They must hold the mystery of the faith with a clear conscience. 10And let them also be tested first; then let them serve as deacons if they prove themselves blameless. 11Their wives£ likewise must be dignified, not slanderers, but sober-minded, faithful in all things. 12Let deacons each be the husband of one wife, managing their children and their own households well. 13For those who serve well as deacons gain a good standing for themselves and also great confidence in the faith that is in Christ Jesus.


Is there anything the Holy Spirit is convicting you about recently that you feel the need to share with me, your Christian brother? If so, what? Have you been truthful about this?

How can I, your brother in Christ, be an encouraging resource to you in your life right now?
   
How can I, your brother in Christ, pray for you this coming week/month?


As iron sharpens iron, So a man sharpens the countenance of his friend. Proverbs 27:17 NKJV

Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working. James 5:16 ESV

submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ. Ephesians 5:21 ESV


Dear brothers and sisters, if another believer is overcome by some sin, you who are godly should gently and humbly help that person back onto the right path. And be careful not to fall into the same temptation yourself. Galatians 6:1 NLT 


What are your thoughts on these discussion points/questions? Do you have some others? 

Mike